My rules for being a girl and respecting myself
greenbrowngirl: 1. Identify as a girl 2. Fuck the police and the state 3. Touch butts (consensually) 4. Have sex as much or as little as you want 5. And have a middle finger ready to flip at all times
I’m fat positive because I’m a feminist, and I refuse to acknowledge in the...– Why I’m Fat Positive (via wewantrevolutiongirlstylenow)
The only reason “coming out” is still even a thing is because it’s presumed that...– Anon (via victor-the-richter)
Sexual Advice: Cunnilingus Techniques →
sexualadvice: The Lick Leaving your tongue soft and jaw relaxed, try licking her from vaginal entrance up to her clit and following the outer edges of her vagina along both sides. Repeating this technique going up and down and vice versa can be a great opener. Labial Hold While holding the two parts…
Anonymous asked: Why do you feel the need to add "heterosexual" to your post? Are you homophobic?
flyingfiend asked: I just wanted to tell you that I feel so lucky that I found your blog. It's really nice to find someone who agrees with me and who knows what they're talking about. Thank you!
Anonymous asked: What are your views on sex workers?
Sex-negative messages don’t keep people from having sex. They keep people from...– Sex-Negative Education and the Spectre of Rape « Sex Positive Activism (via monkeyknifefight)
Ask ten adults to define a slut and you’ll hear things like: a woman who has sex...– Emily Maguire- Princesses & Pornstars (via missrockmeup) This is the best definition of slut I have ever, ever heard/read: a mythical creature dreamt up by people who are jealous of or threatened by female sexual expression (via squeetothegee)
Being on the receiving end of penetration, no matter what position you’re in,...– When Scientists Don’t Understand Sex: Feminism, Dominance, and Arousal | Charlie Glickman (via sexisnottheenemy)
If we understand “slut” to mean “someone (usually a woman) who dresses sexy,...– The Pervocracy: Answering Slutwalk FAQs. (via sexisnottheenemy)
If most women don’t have orgasms during ‘sex,’ but do have orgasms, perhaps we...
What if those of us who were raised either explicitly or implicitly to believe...– http://thecurvature.com/2011/01/04/study-finds-10-of-teens-who-say-theyve-never-had-intercourse-test-positive-for-stds/ (via agentcupcake)
Do you know of any good resources (academic or non-academic) for sex positive perspectives on pornography?
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Thanks for being here. :)
Thanks for being here. :)
transformationsofself asked: That was a really thought provoking post on virginity. Thank you for sharing your insight. I'm looking forward to learning more from you. :)
[T]hose of us who enjoy penis passion often find ourselves silenced by the...– Penis Passion by bell hooks
the return of the pleasure activist by Adrienne... →
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I believe in the radical possibilities of pleasure, babe.– I LIKE FUCKING - BIKINI KILL (via fuckyeahriotgrrrl)
So glad to see I have a few followers! I plan to start posting more regularly soon, so keep your eyes peeled. I also added commenting- hopefully this will soon be a place for conversation. ♥ sexposgrrrl
Virginity: Ditch it
Now, I don’t mean to suggest that everyone should be out having wild (heterosexual) sex. I totally respect any individual’s personal choice to abstain from any sexual act(s) for so long as they want- until they are “this” age, until they are in “that” kind of relationship, because they don’t feel like dealing with sex at this point in their life, or ever. What I’m suggesting is that we, as a...
I suspect that you cannot commodify a girl’s virginity without, eventually,...– Peggy Orenstein
I’ve always been a feminist at heart, and honestly, I can’t say when or for how long I’ve officially considered myself one. However, I do know that, around a year ago, this part of myself became vital and central. Taking coursework in feminism and gender studies, I started following feminist blogs and the idealist in me found that the philosophies of feminism had potential for...
The erotic has often been misnamed by men and used against women. It has been...– Audre Lorde (Uses of the Erotic: Erotic as Power)